I was listening to that song Haven sings "You say you love my Jesus?". There's some prize lines in that one.
If a Man forsake not all that he has he cannot be My disciple.
Kind of made me muse a little.
It's easy to just assume that we've given up everything since we're "bona fide disciples" but honestly, what have you given up? What have I? Specifically TO. BE. a disciple.